I Am a Loser (and I Love it)

I am feeling happier and happier these days. And I find it curious that it has nothing to do with money or a relationship, the two things I thought I needed in place for a happy life. In fact, it seems to have more to do with what I’ve lost, and nothing to do with...

Breaking Your Own Personal Eggshells

I’ve walked on eggshells for much of my life. To avoid punishment. To please a partner. To appease my inner critic. To get people to like me. Ouch. The United States of America was founded by people breaking the eggshells they were told they must walk upon....

Self Care – Caring For Your Most Important Relationship

Recently I found an old talk I gave from twenty years ago in Phoenix. I put it up on YouTube and did something I almost never do – I listened to it, absorbed it, and took it in as if I was my own teacher gifting me with a transmission. I was transfixed. It was...